Practicing True Love lesson Part I

Love what is Love ?
I think i discuss this topic on this blog on the very early days when I started blogging. But the hey, Im a christian now surely it will be quite different if i were to explain bout what is love...

Through out these past years, I've been through so many relationships... from heart pain to another heart pain and to another heart pain... .well I guess love is all about heart pain and break ups ? well I guess these are the symptoms for the people now days treating relationship like a ball throwing it all around, if no feeling already then break up. IF this is the cycle for relationship I wonder how many cycle we have to go through till we find the right 1. 10 ? 20? may be never ... @.@

So what is the definition of love for all of us these days ? No offense but 90%+ people around the world have the concept the LOVE = SEX ... @.@" sick right ? I wonder what has gone wrong with peoples mind now days .. Love is something so sacred that come from God and love has the power to change so many things, but sadly now days we people interprate love as sex.. well sry peeps out there.. LOVE IS NOT = TO SEX !!! LOVE IS LOVE it's so amazing that we can't even use words to explain it ... only actions with sincere heart that can show someones love.


Moving on, so since the conpect of love is wrongly interpreated, so what is the true meaning of love ? well this we have to flip our bible and serch for this verse.


*1 Corinthians 13:4-7* (one of my favourite verse =) )
4. Love suffers long and is kind; Love does not envy; Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5. does not bhave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoke, thinks no evil; 6. does not rejoice in iniquity, but joices in the truth; 7. bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things,


This verse show us and tell us what is true love. Love is not something that can be done or show easily. well think logicly, if loving would be that easy to show, God wouldn't sent his only Beloved Son Jesus Christ to be crucify on the cross to save all of us from eternal comdemtion. God love us so much that God is willing to take such move for all of us. Well thats what you call unfailling love.
From these, do you have a clear mind set of what is love? Love is not something that we can jsut say to someone e.g. "I love you, and i will do anything for you!" yea right as if we are really willing to give in( at least most of the people won't these days) Just by saying you love someone doesn't mean that u love someone, but by taking actions, I mean actions that is sincere and truthearted now that is what we call Love.

So how do you show love to someone ? If we refer back to the verse, we will do things unconditionally for our love ones no matter how hard the things are. well these is just one of the signs of love. there are so many ways to show that we love others and the list will be very long if I were to continue telling it.

Overall this post is just the 1st post bout Love so there will be more guides in the next few post.
Generally this is the introduction for the next few post, so hope you guys will sit tight and wait for the next post . Till then....

God Bless...
-Andrew Teoh Ting Jiun-

Random

It's been almost half a year I guess since I had not written anything in to my blog. TO be honest too much things happen to me now days but still I feel so lazy to blog it out. Well why blog it out ? does it even matter to people nowdays ? All they want is jsut to know what's going on but never really bother or care... but hey that's the truth side of us human in this society so guess I have to bare with that ..


Let me see, what should I begin? or how should I begin... arghh I'm out of ideas to blog now days.. Just freaking frustrated and directionless..


I guess I just need a break right now for everything... just wanna shout out and release my stress right now.. can't take it anymore...

Right here , Right now Guitar tabs~~

For those guitar lovers which wanna learn this song...
enjoy~~ XD




Standard Tuning:

Intro: G Bm

Verse: G Bm (2x)

Pre: Em7 D/F#m G (2x)

Chorus: D G Bm G A (2x)

Verse: G Bm (2x)

Pre: Em7 D/F#m G (2x) A

Chorus: D G Bm G A (2x)

Bridge: E G (2x)

[Zac:]
Can you imagine, what would happen
if we could have any dream
I’d wish this moment, was ours to own it
and that it would never leave.
Then I would thank that star,
that made our wish come true (come true)
Ohh Yeahh
Cause he knows that where you are, is where I should be too.

Chorus
Right Here, Right Now
Im looking at you, and my heart loves the view
Cause you mean everything
Right Here, I promise you somehow
that tomorrow can wait, some other day to be (to be)
But right now there’s you and me

[Vanessa:]
It feels like forever, what could be better
We’ve already proved it was
That two thousand words, twenty three hours, have blended the universe.
Its gonna be, everything (everything)
in our whole world changed
(it starts changing)
and do know that when we are, (when we are)
our memory’s the same
oh no,oh no

Chorus
Right Here, Right Now (right now)
Im looking at you,and my heart loves the view
Cause you mean everything (everything)
Right Here, I promise you somehow (somehow were gonna)
That tomorrow can wait, some other day to be (to be)
But right now there’s you and me.

Bridge
Oh we know its coming (coming)
Oh its coming fast
Its always you and me,ohh yeah
so lets make this second last
make it last

Chorus
Right here,
Ooohh Right now.
Yeah im looking at you,
and my heart loves the view
Cause you mean everything

Right Here, I promise you somehow
That tomorrow can wait, some other day to be (to be)
But right now there’s you and me
You and me
you and me
Ohh You and me
But right now there’s you and me

Music is the way to express it all~~~High School Musical 3

It's the best of the best High School Musical among the 3 episodes....
You all MUST watch it!!!
the music the dance .... it's just to expressive and it's so awesome and meaningful..

High School Musical 3 - Can I Have This Dance




High School Musical 3 -Right Here Right Now

Nice songs. =)

Michael Bublé - Lost

Officially Missing You - Tamia (Acoustic Cover) *

Nice song man... gotta listen to both of this =)

Gossip Girl Mondays 8/7c CW

random 3

Sigh.....
it's already so long since the incident happen... why....why.... why.... it is still haunting me and whatever i do o just feel that the problem always come back ....

sigh.... please please please stop it please !!!!!!
i had enough!!! i'm really tired and stressed up d.....

really dunno what to do ... sigh God please....
ease my heart...
peace my soul...
i really need your help.....

random 2

Time just flies....
it goes pass us so fast that some of us don't even notice it......
blink of eye it's already August.....
or to be more accurate August 24th 2008...rainy day.... the sky is so gray...... and i'm missing someone so much.....

well alot of things has been going on and off as i stated on the past post.... and things are still the same .... nothing much has changed... sometimes i just feel this kind of feeling that i should run away.... run away from all this crap... these problems that make me so confuse so conflict within my self... just hope i could just run... and run.... and just keep on running away .... without looking what's left behind.....

But i know that i can't... because there is also so many factors that i can't let go.... God, family, crsie, friends....... sigh... its just too frustrating already.... i always tot that i had a strong faith and a strong heart when problems come.... but then i realize... hey..i'm just a normal teenager.... still in the process of growing..... and i'm not tat strong as i imagine also ...LOL... sad case ..

Just today, suddenly i just tot of all the things i went through from last year till now... man.. honestly i've really change alot.... in the sense of attitude and other stuff etc etc....sometimes i still can't believe myself....Teoh Ting Jiun.... a christian...prefect???...GOOD GUY??? HOLY????? (that's what people label me as nowdays) not like that old times....jerk, sakai, retarded, useless, hopeless, lala, kokoi, cacat...etc etc....just feel so different already with my life now.... moved back staying with parents....got a good life .... a great girlfriend XD...... awesome friends!!(true friends!!!).....and i always think do i deserve all of this....

I got all of this thanks to God ... and also the people god put around me... i really learn alot from them.... and i felt i'm really bless cause i have them as my brother's and sister's in christ.... and somehow when i think of all this... just i felt... yeah things aren't that bad also... because there are still so many people around me .... and i'm sure that God wants to see me be strong and stand still and overcome every trial that God set for me..... so on that very moment i've decided not to run away anymore.... and i just pray that by faith all that is happening will be over soon enough and i've already made 80% of my move towards the problem... just pray that what ever that is gonna happen may it be God's will but not men's will.....

In addition .... i also pray for those people who are causing alot of issues for those on going incident... just hope that whatever you guys do... always check your heart and really make sure that thats what God wants you guy to say or do..... well at the end of the day whatever you all commit its for yourself to know and God bless you all.....

Even a simplest and smallest sin that we commit....
For God is just still the same...
Sin is always againts God word...
And no people is sinless or less in sinning....
we are all equal....
we are all the same...
we are all sinners....
but because of God's love for us...
we are save through Christ....
Amen....

-God is always watching.......-

random

Sorry for the really really late post .....
coz been busy doing all kinds of stuff ....
such as SUTDY!!!! haha kinda hard to believe right ? LOL Teoh Ting Jiun studying man !!!
ya ya thats the truth .... don't feel like failing in trails and STPM haha so have to work hard lo...... must support me ya LOL!!!!


Well what can I say?? Tough month for sure... so many thing has been going on and off around me .... makes me so frustrated and tired.... arghhhhhh!!!!!!!! wish all this kind of crap can just go away itself and I will surely be super duper glad and relief...

God really tested me this period of time... is like so many things just bump out infront of me and best part of it.... all of it come together...I mean the problems.. for once I really felt so tired of all things ... and it really crush my spirit.... and now im still strugling in some parts... some can say solve already but some will take a longer period of time....

Just feel so hopeless at times....but lucky I have God by myside to go through all this and also never the less my dearest CHRISTINE LEE !!! LOL.... without her really dunno i can endure such a long period anot... thx baby love you soso much ... muax....

well so far thats all I wanna say la... dun mind coz i really dun feel like sharing my problems right now... think of it also wanna die d LOL.... till the next post la... and see when I will semangat to post again ...
Till then ... adios~~~~

Living only for God

One question that always pop up in my mind now days.....
Who am i living for ?
MYSELF??
MY FAMILY??
MY GIRLFRIEND??
MY FRIENDS??
Or.....

GOD.....


It has been a draining, frustrating and tiring week for me. So many things and events, UNEXPECTED and UNFORTUNATE events happen in my life... For the 1st time in my life... .i thought i am dead for sure... Firstly, most of you know that I'm a lazy person to start with, anything i will say don't care la and etc etc.... well this kind of attitude of mind kinda bother me for quite a time... knowing that my major exam that is STPM is just around the corner only and i am still slacking around as if the exam is not gonna come for another hundred years.... well gotta do something bout it haha... but still thinking how... lame =(


Secondly, just recently my nose allergy just went into a critical state.. where my nose will just bleed all it wants and it wont stop bleeding at times until i have to stuck my nostrils will tissue paper... arghhh it so frustrating man... so i went to see the doctor right away... and the doctor just told me if the allergy goes into a more critical condition i may have to go through a nose operation ... and what he said really freaked me out... honestly it was the 1st time i got so afraid and i did all the things that the doctor told me to......


Thirdly, its something to do with my relationship life.... well been having a quite CLOSE relationship with a friend of mine.... but not bf gf ... well thing between me and her was so good all this while... we did not force or rush or anything... but then when things just gotten so good .... it just falls apart.. just like that .... (dun wanna elaborate how and what happen between me n her..*PNC*) well it kinda gimme a smack of reality somehow.... and knowing that nothing ever goes smoothly and i want it to be all the time .... well haha that my life .. what can i do bout it.....


Well what's the relation of who am i living for and what i have said? well it relates a lot... somehow... all this while i kinda abandon God in my life... though having so many problems all i do is just complain and complain... and it is just so pointless... is not like by complaining we can get back the things we want... is only by taking actions that will make a difference.... and by knowing this fact... kinda got some revelation that i wanna share with other people.....
Recently, i realize that my spiritual life isn't going that well... so i''ve decided to do something with it ... by changing my lifestyle and have God in my picture no matter what i do... but then things somehow just gotten worst.... all the problems not only did not get solve but then it turn out to be more worst.. and at one point i just felt like giving up everything.. .i mean everything.... but then something just strike me ....
Somehow i realize that... my habit of complaining comes in again, that kinda wake me up and let me realize that all this while i did nothing to make things go easy in my life... i've been bragging about it only... but after that i changed my mind set.... somehow just felt that God told me something.... life is just like the ocean... waves go up and down all the time... and sometimes it is as calm as u can ever imagine but sometimes it will be so rough.... but in all this thing... never once forget bout God.... cause all this happened under his will.. in our lives there are always outcomes the will bring us down... but in one point... we have to put God in the picture all the time...is because of him we are who we are now... and there is always a reason to the things when God just allows it to happen....

All this while I've been blinded by my emotions and also my feelings.... and because of that i couldn't see what is God doing in my life... but now i understand what he is doing.... all this trials that i'm facing, he is just trying to make me stronger and having more faith in him.. .and that's what i'm going to do.... I will not give up on God no matter what the outcomes are.... he has choose me and its my turn to show him that he choose me cause i can do it!!!
Thank you God for you are such a loving and wonderful God... I will not turn my life away from you... cause is because of you i'm here..... And i only live for You not others....


At times we may be blinded by our feelings and emotions.......
but at the end of the day...
Just remember...
God is still with us.....

" And those who know Your name will put their trust in You;
For You, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek You."
Psalm 9:10

Have faith in God for he is a faithful God....
Just wanna encourage all that is reading this blog to think bout it ...
for christian's pray that you will have more faith in God....
because with faith even as small as a mustard seed can move mountains....
and as for those non-christian's hope will will take this opportunity to get to know this wonderful God and love and cares about all of you......